“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Can you ever go back?

silverfox

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OK, I was out Christmas shopping today and of all places I visited a flashy baby clothes store to get a present for a friend's baby daughter.

There were two cute girls in their early twenties working in the store and I was the only customer. As soon as I walked in one of the girls came over to help me.

I happened to mention the baby I was buying for had been born the same time I was overseas. The girl started asking me all about my trip and said she wanted to visit those places.

As soon as I paid and left I realised I had lost my shopping list so I popped back quickly and the girl came to help me look for it but no joy.

I left again and then clicked that I had been getting some interest from her but I was too caught up in my shopping to realise at the time (D'OH!)

Now if I went back and asked her for her number or asked her out for coffee I think my odds are good. After all, most of the guys she will meet through work are buying for their own kids.

Do you think this is worth going back for or should I just file it under missed opportunity and move on?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd say give it a shot, there is no harm in doing it. And at least it sends a message to your brain that you deserve the girls you really find attractive, and that you're not afraid to do something about it.
 

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Ha - no chocolate bars in the baby store. I would like to go back. I think it's worth a shot although it might not be until after Christmas now.

If only I had been switched on an in approach mode as I usually am all weekend. :rolleyes:
 
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