"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
can you ever get tired of sex?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
When you reach an old fart thats when you dont have the feeling for it anymore.
Ya...? :yes:
Teflon_Mcgee
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Doc Dogg said:The actual sex part of my in bed game is a small part of the overall experience. I spend most of my time getting the girl off as many times as I can until she is either begging to have me inside her or she takes over and throws me on my back to finish the job herself. Whenever I'm with a girl I'm totally focused on her pleasure and the ways to do it are changing all the time, so I'll never get bored with it.
100% concur!!
The feeling of a woman's nails digging into me while arching and spasming and moaning during an orgasm is better than the actual sex. Of course even if my intent really is just to pleasure her she will always INSIST to reciprocate in massive quantities.
To answer the orig. question. I don't know about tired of sex but maybe indifferent. I know at the ripe old age of 23 I sometimes feel like just chilling with a girl without sex (however, I am often attacked for sex, see the above paragraph). At 19 this was a different story (of course getting any back then was as easy as mastering intergalactic space travel.)
P.S. I love sex.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
izza
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It's a weird feeling because I wanted more sex, but I didn't want more at all, and I felt satiated.
skip2mylou781
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almost always tho, i prefer sex
When I ****ed the same girl over and over again for over a year straight... Yes I got tired of the sex with that girl. Very much so, to the point where she had trouble getting me off. But was I tired of Sex in general? no. Just sex with her.
Also, all the foreplay leading up to sex can truely be just as fullfilling as the actual sex iteslf. When I'm making out with my current girl I want to fvck her so bad but I'm having so much fun in the process of getting her to fvck me that that in itself is extremly enjoyable.
So theres nothing wrong with lots of sex, enjoy what you have and what you can get and dont forget to change it up every once in a while.
Kings_royalty
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.