"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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can you ever get tired of sex?

vagrant

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some or most of you are old enough and might've had so much experiences. the question's pretty clear. can you?!?! i wanna know if sex would feel natural once you do it over and over. does the fun and excitement go away?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The actual sex part of my in bed game is a small part of the overall experience. I spend most of my time getting the girl off as many times as I can until she is either begging to have me inside her or she takes over and throws me on my back to finish the job herself. Whenever I'm with a girl I'm totally focused on her pleasure and the ways to do it are changing all the time, so I'll never get bored with it.
 

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eventhough im still too young to reach the experience needed to answer your question but I highly doubt it. As long as your yong teen-40's youll enjoy sex.

When you reach an old fart thats when you dont have the feeling for it anymore.

Ya...? :yes:
 

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Doc Dogg said:
The actual sex part of my in bed game is a small part of the overall experience. I spend most of my time getting the girl off as many times as I can until she is either begging to have me inside her or she takes over and throws me on my back to finish the job herself. Whenever I'm with a girl I'm totally focused on her pleasure and the ways to do it are changing all the time, so I'll never get bored with it.

100% concur!!

The feeling of a woman's nails digging into me while arching and spasming and moaning during an orgasm is better than the actual sex. Of course even if my intent really is just to pleasure her she will always INSIST to reciprocate in massive quantities.

To answer the orig. question. I don't know about tired of sex but maybe indifferent. I know at the ripe old age of 23 I sometimes feel like just chilling with a girl without sex (however, I am often attacked for sex, see the above paragraph). At 19 this was a different story (of course getting any back then was as easy as mastering intergalactic space travel.)

P.S. I love sex.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i've never done it so i think i'd be dumb to answer my own question but i pretty much think i won't ever get tired of sex...just imagining a girl getting all weak, moaning and ugh!
 

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Yes, I have before.

It's a weird feeling because I wanted more sex, but I didn't want more at all, and I felt satiated.
 

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sometimes when ive had alot of sex (3 girls in 3 days for example), i wouldnt mind just sittin home and jerkin off 5 times over having sex again.

almost always tho, i prefer sex
 

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Yes and no.

When I ****ed the same girl over and over again for over a year straight... Yes I got tired of the sex with that girl. Very much so, to the point where she had trouble getting me off. But was I tired of Sex in general? no. Just sex with her.

Also, all the foreplay leading up to sex can truely be just as fullfilling as the actual sex iteslf. When I'm making out with my current girl I want to fvck her so bad but I'm having so much fun in the process of getting her to fvck me that that in itself is extremly enjoyable.

So theres nothing wrong with lots of sex, enjoy what you have and what you can get and dont forget to change it up every once in a while.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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