"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
can you ever get tired of sex?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Charm&Style
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When you reach an old fart thats when you dont have the feeling for it anymore.
Ya...? :yes:
Teflon_Mcgee
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Doc Dogg said:The actual sex part of my in bed game is a small part of the overall experience. I spend most of my time getting the girl off as many times as I can until she is either begging to have me inside her or she takes over and throws me on my back to finish the job herself. Whenever I'm with a girl I'm totally focused on her pleasure and the ways to do it are changing all the time, so I'll never get bored with it.
100% concur!!
The feeling of a woman's nails digging into me while arching and spasming and moaning during an orgasm is better than the actual sex. Of course even if my intent really is just to pleasure her she will always INSIST to reciprocate in massive quantities.
To answer the orig. question. I don't know about tired of sex but maybe indifferent. I know at the ripe old age of 23 I sometimes feel like just chilling with a girl without sex (however, I am often attacked for sex, see the above paragraph). At 19 this was a different story (of course getting any back then was as easy as mastering intergalactic space travel.)
P.S. I love sex.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
izza
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It's a weird feeling because I wanted more sex, but I didn't want more at all, and I felt satiated.
skip2mylou781
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almost always tho, i prefer sex
When I ****ed the same girl over and over again for over a year straight... Yes I got tired of the sex with that girl. Very much so, to the point where she had trouble getting me off. But was I tired of Sex in general? no. Just sex with her.
Also, all the foreplay leading up to sex can truely be just as fullfilling as the actual sex iteslf. When I'm making out with my current girl I want to fvck her so bad but I'm having so much fun in the process of getting her to fvck me that that in itself is extremly enjoyable.
So theres nothing wrong with lots of sex, enjoy what you have and what you can get and dont forget to change it up every once in a while.
Kings_royalty
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.