"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can you bang her too good?

lizardking82

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Is there such a thing as too good of a fvck? Like, you bang her so well she cannot take more than one or two sessions a week? Ever happened to you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Send her home in a wheelchair…
Seriously though, if she tells you the next day she isn't walking right, it was good enough.
 

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No, that's another point, but I am trying to understand if any of you see this as a game of withdrawing/limiting sex to once/twice per week or it really being so good that she cannot take it more than once or twice a week (not living together) because the effect lasts 2/3 days each time LOL
 

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No, that's another point, but I am trying to understand if any of you see this as a game of withdrawing/limiting sex to once/twice per week or it really being so good that she cannot take it more than once or twice a week (not living together) because the effect lasts 2/3 days each time LOL
Try it daily then and let us know who wears out first. I'd be up for that myself.…
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Try it daily then and let us know who wears out first. I'd be up for that myself.
I am not in the mood for it daily miself, so yeah...
 

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Geez trouble is if you're into Asian girls u ll want days off for the skin on your knob to grow back. Like a mouse s ear. As opposed to the wizard s sleeve u get with your std Euro CC rider.
 

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Fvcking hell, must be doing it wrong.

Usually, it's them that want more than I do for repeated goes. B*tches be insatiable.

Which Is why when women say "I like sex more than men do", it sounds stupid - but they are right in a sense.

I think men want the initial sex more than women do. But when women are turned on, they typically have bigger appetites.
Repeated goes is another thing, I usually do that as well and the girls are up for it, up to 3/4 times. But I think missing the other person for a couple of days makes the sex more passionate when it happens.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe, go easy on her???

If she's not sore, she'll probably want more.
 

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Never heard that one. Usually the better it is, the more they want it. In which you have to limit to avoid overdoing it. If you're getting that excuse you must be slanging some pornstar 14" pipe. If not, she's either extremely sensitive or using it as an excuse.
 

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Never heard that one. Usually the better it is, the more they want it. In which you have to limit to avoid overdoing it. If you're getting that excuse you must be slanging some pornstar 14" pipe. If not, she's either extremely sensitive or using it as an excuse.
I am 18 cm...and usually, they *** several times. Maybe it hurts, I don't know
 

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I am 18 cm...and usually, they *** several times. Maybe it hurts, I don't know
Communication...I won't get into a relationship without it.

Also, so of us were cut too short and may have shaft hair. I imagine, that can chafe a bit.
 

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Communication...I won't get into a relationship without it.
With my ex, we used to have sex usually once a week and not because we didn't want to, but there were several factors involved: she was just 17/18, her going out was kinda limited meaning we could not hang out everyday for hours and hours and we did not even wanna do that cause we thought it would make it all boring and very dull, so we used to meet once in 2/3 days and have sex once in 5/6 days.

What I mean is it varies from the girl, but in general, I was just curious if some of the guys here have had a plate/gf with which they did NOT live with that they banged at this rate, like once in 4/5/6 days. Or you usually bang like rabbits almost everyday?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm not going to see a new plate more than 1/2 times a week so it wouldn't bother me all that much BUT I probably wouldn't consider her for anything more. More than likely a short term plate.

Withdrawing/limiting sex is loss of frame in my book. My best LTR's never pulled anything remotely close to that.

I've had an ex pull similar with the line of "quality" over "quantity" I just didn't give her enough tingles, ohwell. Found out later she was on meds, yeah kills the libido. Next!

As far as an ex that was on my high score list for sexual compatibility she was straight up insatiable. Very little down time for her, never needed recovery days. Sweet little latina, 5 foot nothing spinner. We did not live together, pretty much everytime we saw each other. 4/5x a week. I was 33/34 she was 27ish.

Dude you are in your early 20's, enjoy your youth and find a chick that wants to bang like rabbits. Just wrap it up and or make sure she's on BC.
 
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Geez trouble is if you're into Asian girls u ll want days off for the skin on your knob to grow back. Like a mouse s ear. As opposed to the wizard s sleeve u get with your std Euro CC rider.
There's nothing like a great time with an Asian girl, especially the shorter or repressed ones that turn out to be very freaky; it should be an experience in everyone's bucket list.
 

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On the contrary, you MUST bang her too good. That's the only way to truly make them fall over time.

I usually have one date per week and we have sex 3-4 times per date. She is definitely sore after.

It is bad to stagnate and not make approaches with other women. Why? Because SHE will start to lose interest if she doesn't observe other women liking you. And we get off our game and it shows to her in other ways (neediness mainly). My girl told me last week (without my asking) she doesn't want to see anyone except me, but hasn't asked me to commit formally, so I still pursue other women.

I think seeing a girl once a week is the ideal for long term romances.
 
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