"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can winning the lottery make an old coot attractive as a husband to a young bride?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We all get into relationships that are familiar to us. Be conscious of this fact and you can use it to your advantage. Otherwise, you are kind of a slave to it.

In this case, I suspect the fact that there were similar facial characteristics is part of what brought the two together, not so much money. They both reminded each other of their parents in the looks department. So many women go for this.

Another factor bringing these 2 together, was they both grew up in dysfunctional households. It's evident in their actions described in the article They both knew how to do that dysfunctional dance and play well together. If can ever consciousnessly use any of your childhood to give you an advantage over women, I say "go for it!". Probably low hanging fruit, but who cares.

Not much alpha here or even money/earnings. Just 2 people doing a familiar dance together.
 

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This is not a good question. Plenty of younger women will use an older man for his money. Is this what you want? Remember once married she doesn't have to phvck you.
 

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Attractive in that he has the means to invest in her material lust.

It feels good to be back! I haven't seen these boards since I went MIA in 2005ish.
 

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Attractive in that he has the means to invest in her material lust.

It feels good to be back! I haven't seen these boards since I went MIA in 2005ish.
Yeah... She will "be with" you but probably screwing a guy who is unemployed or underemployed and not very motivated. While you bust your ass and spend money on her. She might even loan her friends some of your money, some of those friends are male...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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