"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can winning the lottery make an old coot attractive as a husband to a young bride?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bmp2cpm

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We all get into relationships that are familiar to us. Be conscious of this fact and you can use it to your advantage. Otherwise, you are kind of a slave to it.

In this case, I suspect the fact that there were similar facial characteristics is part of what brought the two together, not so much money. They both reminded each other of their parents in the looks department. So many women go for this.

Another factor bringing these 2 together, was they both grew up in dysfunctional households. It's evident in their actions described in the article They both knew how to do that dysfunctional dance and play well together. If can ever consciousnessly use any of your childhood to give you an advantage over women, I say "go for it!". Probably low hanging fruit, but who cares.

Not much alpha here or even money/earnings. Just 2 people doing a familiar dance together.
 

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This is not a good question. Plenty of younger women will use an older man for his money. Is this what you want? Remember once married she doesn't have to phvck you.
 

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Attractive in that he has the means to invest in her material lust.

It feels good to be back! I haven't seen these boards since I went MIA in 2005ish.
 

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Attractive in that he has the means to invest in her material lust.

It feels good to be back! I haven't seen these boards since I went MIA in 2005ish.
Yeah... She will "be with" you but probably screwing a guy who is unemployed or underemployed and not very motivated. While you bust your ass and spend money on her. She might even loan her friends some of your money, some of those friends are male...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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