"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can we get useful info, and not just questions???

AlexLefty

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I'm tired of coming on here and seeing an abundance of afc based questions and journals.

What I want is for people to post some advice, or something. General tips..general things you've learned..theories...something. I try to post some things every once in a while that are helpful, like field reports or random tips, but I don't see anyone else doing it. Nothing against journals, but I don't read them..there's too many and not enough time. I support them for the personal growth, but otherwise, meh. If you guys have tips/advice/theories/whatever the **** you should start a new thread about it, because we can't check every single persons journal every single day? You know?

Anyways, thought I'd post this: these are a couple of common phrases I'll use in specific situations, you might find them helpful.

If someone says they're going to do something, for example: "I'm going to go say hi to julia" or "I'm going to the bathroom" a good response might be: "You go girl" or "Congratulations" or "Yay for you (from ndj)"

If someone compliments you on something, for example: "I like your ****" you say: "Thank you" and do not say something like "you think..i don't like it...blah blah" or tell an unnecessarily long/boring story about it. Say "Thank you" and compliment them or move on.

If someone makes a statement about what they like or has an opinion on something you could say "I agree". You don't want to monopolize the convo, say "I agree" and continue prodding about their opinion, or bring up a new subject for them to talk about, because people will talk forever.

"Respect (from the game)"

Yup....

k bye.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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