"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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can u help me pls

keoss

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hi ,
i have been viewing the posts in this forum from a long time and i must saide that most of my present knoleadge about women and dating is comming from this great source : your website and forum . thank you :) :D
my request is this : am a 23 years old (attractive as mst girls would describe me...)and i want to seduce girls on chating rooms ( internet in general ) but i cant , every time i try to talk to a girl i feel just that i cant tell here nothing interesting ,and belive me it is realy hurtting for me . in the real life am a very sociable person and have lots of friend ( girls and boys ) but in the internet i feel just as a borring thing ( the strange thing is that i have serious friend in forums and other chat rooms , but when it comes to making an emotional relationship over the internet , i cant)and , i cant seduce girls on the internet i simply dont know what to tell them , so pls if you have an advice or some tips please help me , i just need some experience .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Desdinova

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First of all, if you can't seduce women in real life, how do you expect to seduce them on the internet?

Second, the seduction side of things doesn't work well on the internet. You can't do kino, kiss, make eye contact, use body language, or have sex via the internet. it's not possible, so why are you trying.

Get the woman off the internet ASAP and THEN work on seduction.
 

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Seduction off-line (how did we come to using these internet-relativism terms?) is much different because of the cues you have available to you. In real life we observe body language to gauge interest and next move. Online you just don't have the same information. All you have to your disposal is words to derive emotional state from... That's why I stay away from online dating, the few times I tried I set up a date right away.
 

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Ehh I havent had trouble connecting with girls online. You just have to talk. All I can tell you is concentrate on her. It would take an essay to lay out the details of how to seduce a girl properly online.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Seduction off-line (how did we come to using these internet-relativism terms?) is much different because of the cues you have available to you. In real life we observe body language to gauge interest and next move. Online you just don't have the same information. All you have to your disposal is words to derive emotional state from... That's why I stay away from online dating, the few times I tried I set up a date right away.
thats realy what is happening , i just feel extremely lost during conversations on the interenet , in the real life i have absolutly no probleme , it is so much easy to know what a girl expect from you and base your strategies in relation to her expectations mood ...(moreover your tips are great ,they have been proved to work , i can certify :) ).
thanks for you answers
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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