"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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can u help me pls

keoss

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hi ,
i have been viewing the posts in this forum from a long time and i must saide that most of my present knoleadge about women and dating is comming from this great source : your website and forum . thank you :) :D
my request is this : am a 23 years old (attractive as mst girls would describe me...)and i want to seduce girls on chating rooms ( internet in general ) but i cant , every time i try to talk to a girl i feel just that i cant tell here nothing interesting ,and belive me it is realy hurtting for me . in the real life am a very sociable person and have lots of friend ( girls and boys ) but in the internet i feel just as a borring thing ( the strange thing is that i have serious friend in forums and other chat rooms , but when it comes to making an emotional relationship over the internet , i cant)and , i cant seduce girls on the internet i simply dont know what to tell them , so pls if you have an advice or some tips please help me , i just need some experience .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desdinova

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First of all, if you can't seduce women in real life, how do you expect to seduce them on the internet?

Second, the seduction side of things doesn't work well on the internet. You can't do kino, kiss, make eye contact, use body language, or have sex via the internet. it's not possible, so why are you trying.

Get the woman off the internet ASAP and THEN work on seduction.
 

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Seduction off-line (how did we come to using these internet-relativism terms?) is much different because of the cues you have available to you. In real life we observe body language to gauge interest and next move. Online you just don't have the same information. All you have to your disposal is words to derive emotional state from... That's why I stay away from online dating, the few times I tried I set up a date right away.
 

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Ehh I havent had trouble connecting with girls online. You just have to talk. All I can tell you is concentrate on her. It would take an essay to lay out the details of how to seduce a girl properly online.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Seduction off-line (how did we come to using these internet-relativism terms?) is much different because of the cues you have available to you. In real life we observe body language to gauge interest and next move. Online you just don't have the same information. All you have to your disposal is words to derive emotional state from... That's why I stay away from online dating, the few times I tried I set up a date right away.
thats realy what is happening , i just feel extremely lost during conversations on the interenet , in the real life i have absolutly no probleme , it is so much easy to know what a girl expect from you and base your strategies in relation to her expectations mood ...(moreover your tips are great ,they have been proved to work , i can certify :) ).
thanks for you answers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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