"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Can u change a girls mind?

DJinTraining06

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2 Questions.

#1 - If a girl who is at one time really into u then loses interest, is it ever possible to re-gain her interest, or is that a lost cause. Do they never go back?

# 2 - If a girl knows u want her, is it possible to change that perception in her mind into thinking u don't want her? Without her giving up on altogether. Like can u get a girl to re-chase u?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bvbidd

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The girl always knows you want her.

When girls say they like a guy she can't have, she means like value wise ya know?

If your talking to her she knows you want to have sex with her regardless of your teasing and sh!t. It's after that, your actions after that. "Why is she talking to her too?" etc etc.

But yeah, you can do that. Keep it sexual between you but get other girls in your life and make it obvious to her. It makes number two work.
 

DJinTraining06

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But yeah, you can do that. Keep it sexual between you but get other girls in your life and make it obvious to her. It makes number two work.[/QUOTE]


How do u keep it sexual? Like if im out with her again, should i try to make out wht her alot, and less talkin. Less listening to her babble or babbling from me. Im just tryin to get another date with this chick in the first place. What do i do in the meantime? My gut tells me if i ignore her for a while she come back and start texting or iming me again, but i dont know how far to go with this. If she does come back like this, how receptive should i be to it? Should i act blase or act like a fun charismatic guy. I never know how to balabnce that.
 

BlackJackal

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You're over thinking about this man. Dont take it so serious. If she comes back, just be as sexual as you was before. Dont put in unnecessary effort out of fear of losing her, you'll come off as unnatural. If she does'nt come back just accept it and move on. Chicks are funny like that. Fine and gain more and you wont even care.:D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AlexTheGreat

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by sexual, i dont think bvbidd meant to whip out your shlong and start thrusting in front of her. more like, make fun of her, act ****y&funny, be generally great and fun, and get some sexual jokes and flirting going. that'll bring her back in your grasp.

also, you just said the girl had lost interest, or she already knows you're interested but she's not. so dont pull any obvious moves (kissing, handholding or whatever) until you see obvious signs. until then, keep it light and fun. if shes not interested and you pull a move, you're gonna lose her for good. just keep flirting, but always have a way out in case **** goes sour.
 
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