"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can u change a girls mind?

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DJinTraining06

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2 Questions.

#1 - If a girl who is at one time really into u then loses interest, is it ever possible to re-gain her interest, or is that a lost cause. Do they never go back?

# 2 - If a girl knows u want her, is it possible to change that perception in her mind into thinking u don't want her? Without her giving up on altogether. Like can u get a girl to re-chase u?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bvbidd

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The girl always knows you want her.

When girls say they like a guy she can't have, she means like value wise ya know?

If your talking to her she knows you want to have sex with her regardless of your teasing and sh!t. It's after that, your actions after that. "Why is she talking to her too?" etc etc.

But yeah, you can do that. Keep it sexual between you but get other girls in your life and make it obvious to her. It makes number two work.
 
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DJinTraining06

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But yeah, you can do that. Keep it sexual between you but get other girls in your life and make it obvious to her. It makes number two work.[/QUOTE]


How do u keep it sexual? Like if im out with her again, should i try to make out wht her alot, and less talkin. Less listening to her babble or babbling from me. Im just tryin to get another date with this chick in the first place. What do i do in the meantime? My gut tells me if i ignore her for a while she come back and start texting or iming me again, but i dont know how far to go with this. If she does come back like this, how receptive should i be to it? Should i act blase or act like a fun charismatic guy. I never know how to balabnce that.
 
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You're over thinking about this man. Dont take it so serious. If she comes back, just be as sexual as you was before. Dont put in unnecessary effort out of fear of losing her, you'll come off as unnatural. If she does'nt come back just accept it and move on. Chicks are funny like that. Fine and gain more and you wont even care.:D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AlexTheGreat

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by sexual, i dont think bvbidd meant to whip out your shlong and start thrusting in front of her. more like, make fun of her, act ****y&funny, be generally great and fun, and get some sexual jokes and flirting going. that'll bring her back in your grasp.

also, you just said the girl had lost interest, or she already knows you're interested but she's not. so dont pull any obvious moves (kissing, handholding or whatever) until you see obvious signs. until then, keep it light and fun. if shes not interested and you pull a move, you're gonna lose her for good. just keep flirting, but always have a way out in case **** goes sour.
 
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