"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Here is what I got to say.... yes and no... Yes because a lot of great points on here (check old articles)... However, one key flaw, some of the people that run this place may be an AFC... In essence there is a little AFC in all of us.

Key Don Juans were banned from this site :( because their thoughts seemed extreme and not believed...

Point I am trying to make, for the site to really be legite we must

1)Free speech, input and insight from all levels of people and spectrum
2)Allow, no matter how ridiculous or insane points to be brought up and addressed and responded to.
3)Have an open mind...

DO NOT BAN people..... i.e. back in the day if you suggested that we weren't the center of the earth, or that moon circles us you were ridiculed and killed.

The truth hurts sometimes... Have an open mind....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For starters, you see a lot of repeat AFC questions of, why she ignoring me, why she didnt return my text or phone call, should is uprise her, how do i get her to like me again, why doesnt she, how do i get her to call me, how do i get her interest back... bla bla bla...
1)Humans are very smart animals, (even the dumb ones)
2)She knows you called
3)If she wants to, she would know how to contact you
4)she is AWARE she ignoring u.. duh..

Conclusion, in the end, a woman is attracted to a mans man..... i.e. a bad boy... we all look up to the general...

she might "love" you, but its the bad boy thats banging her brains out

which one do you want to be?
is it possible to be both... yes... if you either are natural at certain mental control tecnhiques or u must develop them...
 

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No, the people that were banned were giving advice that is downright WRONG or even unlawful. I think I remember somebody by the name of 'DonJuanForever' who was banned for giving advice to PHYSICALLY ABUSE women. Other's were banned for talking about religion and such.
 

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It is the "mental control" techniques that were presented here earlier, that got some of the don juans kicked off the site.... keep in mind, there is a difference between just being that funny cool guy that picks up a girl, and that man that actually has her at finger tips and really has her devotion! you have to have a level of mental superiority over her.... it is what it is... remember, the act of sex is truly a man taking over a woman, method of control, even a dominatrix becomes submissive with the right man....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dannyrt34 said:
No, the people that were banned were giving advice that is downright WRONG or even unlawful. I think I remember somebody by the name of 'DonJuanForever' who was banned for giving advice to PHYSICALLY ABUSE women. Other's were banned for talking about religion and such.

show me the link to an article.... i want to read it

I think a lot of people misunderstood..physical abuse is not supported
but display of dominance occurs...

girls sometimes want to be grabbed and told "sit your ass down"

just as a Daddy would, when he grabs his daughters hand out of the cookie jar and says thats for dinner lol
 

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found it, sorry it was actually not 'DonJuanForever'

The screenname was actually "DonJuanByNature"
And here is the thread where he attempts to explain "mental abuse"
If you read on it definitely is classified as PHYSICAL ABUSE.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104303

These are his exact words:

"very nice Instead of you saying "I wont see you" as a form of punishment, I think pinning her on the floor, put your hand over her mouth and nose, and let her fight for her breath a little, and then say "You lucky I love you, otherwise I would have left my hand there" hahahahah and then dont forget to kiss her ofcourse"
 

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TruthHurts said:
1)Free speech, input and insight from all levels of people and spectrum
2)Allow, no matter how ridiculous or insane points to be brought up and addressed and responded to.
3)Have an open mind...
A so called "newbie" with only 12 posts is preaching about not banning people and having an open mind, it doesn't smell right.
 

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A so called "newbie" with only 12 posts is preaching about not banning people and having an open mind, it doesn't smell right.
So if you have 2600 post that makes you sumbody important?
 

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Hey Truth, why create a new account just to post this? What's wrong with your other one?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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^^ JUST GUESS.

- He likes nursery rhymes or basketball players.
- He likes to start threads all the time.
- He has all the answers.
- HE LOVES MYSPACE.
 

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and complaining about being banned, i would say either skip, or actually DonJuanByNature. Mainly cause he has already mentioned "mental control" which is the same as "mental abuse. I suspected it but didn't want to say anything.
 

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blueguy said:
^^ JUST GUESS.

- He likes nursery rhymes or basketball players.
- He likes to start threads all the time.
- He has all the answers.
- HE LOVES MYSPACE.
Skip?

That's not it. He's at Player Supreme's and his grammer gives him away.


Is it DonJuanForever/Angelus/whatever the fvck he's been called before?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Hey Truth, why create a new account just to post this? What's wrong with your other one?

My other one... is banned...

Why am I on here... Cause through all my experience I know what needs to be done not to be an AFC...But no matter how much you know, its different knowing and actually living up to it.... Recently I commited acts of AFCness with my X... Why? Cause I a human... No matter how suave you think you are I think we all atleast one point in our life go through the heart break... I have.

What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger...

By the way.. I dont like myspace.. i hate internet.. I think its killing our ability to be social.. I say high to a girl at store 24, and b.itch looks at me all crazy. Maybe she thinks im a rapist or something.... why? cause she is not socially adept and doesnt know how to interect with people.. Go to europe and say hi, what you get... a nice hi back with a conversation, cause a girl knows how to handle herself,,,, However, internet works, dont matter how, where or when, if there is a girl, there is game...

I am impressed that you recognize these names...

I am DonJuanByNature.. wether you love me or hate me.. YOU REMEMBER ME..... proves my point... Mahamad ALI loved..... or remembered.. look at history he taunts his opponent after knocking him down (bad sportsman ship that would get your license revoked these days)...

point is,, like it or not, YOU DONT REMEMBER THE OTHER KIDS,,,, but you remember me and my boy SKIP....

same with a girl... she might hate you, but she keeps comming back...

regarding the physical thing,,,,you took it all wrong,, its intended to be playfull. not malicious in nature as you suspect... i.e. you giver her a taste of it without actually meaning it... i.e. originally the man is a defender, he protects the women from wild beasts...where are the beasts now??? does a women really need you for protection???? no.. but... thousands of years of evolution have selected women that rely on that innate need for a mens protection, hence why women are attracted to a "bad boy" who is not afraid to get in a fight... case closed...
 

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TruthHurts said:
My other one... is banned...

Why am I on here... Cause through all my experience I know what needs to be done not to be an AFC...But no matter how much you know, its different knowing and actually living up to it.... Recently I commited acts of AFCness with my X... Why? Cause I a human... No matter how suave you think you are I think we all atleast one point in our life go through the heart break... I have.

What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger...

By the way.. I dont like myspace.. i hate internet.. I think its killing our ability to be social.. I say high to a girl at store 24, and b.itch looks at me all crazy. Maybe she thinks im a rapist or something.... why? cause she is not socially adept and doesnt know how to interect with people.. Go to europe and say hi, what you get... a nice hi back with a conversation, cause a girl knows how to handle herself,,,, However, internet works, dont matter how, where or when, if there is a girl, there is game...

I am impressed that you recognize these names...

I am DonJuanByNature.. wether you love me or hate me.. YOU REMEMBER ME..... proves my point... Mahamad ALI loved..... or remembered.. look at history he taunts his opponent after knocking him down (bad sportsman ship that would get your license revoked these days)...

point is,, like it or not, YOU DONT REMEMBER THE OTHER KIDS,,,, but you remember me and my boy SKIP....

same with a girl... she might hate you, but she keeps comming back...

regarding the physical thing,,,,you took it all wrong,, its intended to be playfull. not malicious in nature as you suspect... i.e. you giver her a taste of it without actually meaning it... i.e. originally the man is a defender, he protects the women from wild beasts...where are the beasts now??? does a women really need you for protection???? no.. but... thousands of years of evolution have selected women that rely on that innate need for a mens protection, hence why women are attracted to a "bad boy" who is not afraid to get in a fight... case closed...
:kick:
 

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TruthHurts said:
regarding the physical thing,,,,you took it all wrong,, its intended to be playfull.
damn I knew that was you. Anyway, here is a suggestion. If you don't want to get banned, watch the way you word it then if it's intended to be playful. If 99% of everyone on here took that advice the wrong way, perhaps you should look at how you write your stuff, and try to get it across to mean what you want it to mean.
 

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Dannyrt34 said:
perhaps you should look at how you write your stuff, and try to get it across to mean what you want it to mean.
I agree, that when someone reading something they can completly get the wrong idea.. i.e. tonation, body language style of saying something is important...

like "how you doin" you dont just say to a girl, how you doin.. its the way you say it, look at her, etc etc... will try to be more descriptive so that people are more understanding..
 
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