Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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can somone explain this

The College Guy

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alright so i got dumped by a girl i dated for a couple of months...we are forced to see each other because of the club orgainizatiion we are both involved in. I give her the impressiion that i've moved on...and feel great..and i do...i've never called her asking her to come back..., never mentiioned the past...or anything...sometimes I would be polite and talk back if she talked to me...

so i been doing that for like a month and a half now...flirting with other chicks..etc...but llike the last 2 weeks..she's been completely ignoring me..not that i'm bothered by it, but i'm just wondering what females think when they do this?

Basically she dumped me...and wanted to be friends...and i just basically pulled back..and treated her like any regular girl or guy...So why is she the one that's bitter? is this some kind of test to see if i still miss her? Because if it is..then i won't give in..i'm moving on...

basically i dont' want to seem like i'm bitter and angry and won't talk to her..but i'm also not wanting to give in...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mutambo

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I think it's simple.. she's p*ssed off your not trying to get her back.
And wants to get your attention so she is acting all childish
 

MacAvoy

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Who cares, don't waste your valuable time trying to figure out what a women (who doesn't like you) is thinking. Focus your time and energy on women that ARE actually interested in you. Its a glass half full vs empty thing.

Why focus on the negative things in your life when baking with sugar will get you more positive results than baking with salt.
 

DJDamage

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MacAvoy said:
Who cares, don't waste your valuable time trying to figure out what a women (who doesn't like you) is thinking.
College guy cares because he is secretly looking for any desperate signs that this chick might want him back and therefore he is finding them.

Stop dwelling on the past, move on and small things like this wouldn't bother you.
 
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