"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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can somone explain this

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The College Guy

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alright so i got dumped by a girl i dated for a couple of months...we are forced to see each other because of the club orgainizatiion we are both involved in. I give her the impressiion that i've moved on...and feel great..and i do...i've never called her asking her to come back..., never mentiioned the past...or anything...sometimes I would be polite and talk back if she talked to me...

so i been doing that for like a month and a half now...flirting with other chicks..etc...but llike the last 2 weeks..she's been completely ignoring me..not that i'm bothered by it, but i'm just wondering what females think when they do this?

Basically she dumped me...and wanted to be friends...and i just basically pulled back..and treated her like any regular girl or guy...So why is she the one that's bitter? is this some kind of test to see if i still miss her? Because if it is..then i won't give in..i'm moving on...

basically i dont' want to seem like i'm bitter and angry and won't talk to her..but i'm also not wanting to give in...
 

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I think it's simple.. she's p*ssed off your not trying to get her back.
And wants to get your attention so she is acting all childish
 
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Who cares, don't waste your valuable time trying to figure out what a women (who doesn't like you) is thinking. Focus your time and energy on women that ARE actually interested in you. Its a glass half full vs empty thing.

Why focus on the negative things in your life when baking with sugar will get you more positive results than baking with salt.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Who cares, don't waste your valuable time trying to figure out what a women (who doesn't like you) is thinking.
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College guy cares because he is secretly looking for any desperate signs that this chick might want him back and therefore he is finding them.

Stop dwelling on the past, move on and small things like this wouldn't bother you.
 
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