can someone tell me where i went wrong here...(text convo)

[Bingo-Player]

Actually thought i had already commented in this thread but clearly forgot to save it

Anyway right yea the first text is good its light hearted and allows her to remember who you are from what you where talking about

you should of flipped the conversation to a date almost as soon as she replied to that first text

Instead you decided to start trying to validate yourself to her by spinning off a load of random carp trying to be funny but in all honesty doesn’t make sense because you can’t express emotion through texts (sorry to be harsh)

I used to spend hours constructing complex texts which where paragraphs long trying to build a rapport with a woman

I was pis*ing in the wind

Short to the point and witty texts will get you the results you want

 

[Chaan]

But isn't it true that if u always point at the date right away u might scare off the ones that have IL but not as high as others? Not every girl wants to hook up right away. Some need a little persuading...

What if I got a number from a girl which isn't convinced about my potential (could even be because of her thinking i'm a player or not the type she usually is attracted to) but she is curious about my move next? Making her laugh by using good text can be a strong move right?

 

[latinnova]

Hmmm... there was a little bit too much will nilly humor going on in there. It's good to throw a couple of funny jabs in there, but I just use text to get important messages across "Here's the address" "stuck in traffic", etc.. I save all the funny stuff and conversation pieces for actual one on one conversation.

 

[Bingo-Player]

But isn't it true that if u always point at the date right away u might scare off the ones that have IL but not as high as others? Not every girl wants to hook up right away. Some need a little persuading... ?

Theres a really fine line between being funny and trying too hard

Unless you know what you’re doing i would avoid “trying” to be funny in texts

Don’t get me wrong If the opportunity presents itself in the text convo by all means take it

What if I got a number from a girl which isn't convinced about my potential (could even be because of her thinking i'm a player or not the type she usually is attracted to) but she is curious about my move next? Making her laugh by using good text can be a strong move right?

Lol if she isn’t convinced about your potential why would she be curious on your next move ?

Trust me bro most girls these days have different guys hitting them up 20 times a day if you haven’t done enough to “convince” her about your potential in the initial interaction you aren’t going to be able to do it via text

 

[Meisterman]

Dude you're trying way too hard, I cringed reading this. Your texts should be simple, short, and direct. You don't want to give off the vibe that you spent 20 minutes thinking of a clever joke to say or a witty response. Just get to the fuc*ing point and be friendly but serious.