"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can someone explain me this please...

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Can someone explain me this:

For a pretty long time i 'chage' this girl. She acts positive to hang around all the time but we never got any further (sexual). For some reason i could not reach that point and i was always the one who had to take the initiative to see eachother. So i meet another girl and she is after me. I get involved with the girl but now the former girl starts to act interested and told me bluntly things were open between us till the new girl came around. WTF!!!! This girl is beyond hot, what would you do in this situation?
Why woman act like this?

LittleBigOne
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. She might see you in a new light now - jealousy is a powerful emotion.

Probably the single most important thing that attracts a woman to a man is whether other women are interested in him. It's even more important than money, looks, etc. in my experience.
 
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call her bluff and escalate sexually. If she resists, don't chase her, replace her.
 
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She had her chance and didnt go for it, stick with the girl you are with now, and if things dont go well with her, then use jealousy for the first woman.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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