"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can someone explain me this please...

LittleBigOne

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Can someone explain me this:

For a pretty long time i 'chage' this girl. She acts positive to hang around all the time but we never got any further (sexual). For some reason i could not reach that point and i was always the one who had to take the initiative to see eachother. So i meet another girl and she is after me. I get involved with the girl but now the former girl starts to act interested and told me bluntly things were open between us till the new girl came around. WTF!!!! This girl is beyond hot, what would you do in this situation?
Why woman act like this?

LittleBigOne
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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starplayer

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She doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. She might see you in a new light now - jealousy is a powerful emotion.

Probably the single most important thing that attracts a woman to a man is whether other women are interested in him. It's even more important than money, looks, etc. in my experience.
 

Young Juan

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call her bluff and escalate sexually. If she resists, don't chase her, replace her.
 

Cinamon

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She had her chance and didnt go for it, stick with the girl you are with now, and if things dont go well with her, then use jealousy for the first woman.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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