"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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can some rules be broken

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BLUEox117

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if a chick really wants u, can u break some rules, like getting her number first and waiting a few days instead of just straight up askin to go sumwhere?

this chick i know from work, is really into me, but i dont wanna be a rebound!
question is should i just get her to go sumwhere wit me, or get nubmer first and then wait..... seems her IL is huge.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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look there is no such things as rules ok its all guidelines.
 
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and who siad you can not get her number first, your the one who is suposed to make the move. You can not relie on a girl to do that.
 
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lol im goin real slow cause i dont wanna be a rebound.
thx for ur help tho.
i will be glad to post results in soon:) :cool:
 
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