"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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can some rules be broken

BLUEox117

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if a chick really wants u, can u break some rules, like getting her number first and waiting a few days instead of just straight up askin to go sumwhere?

this chick i know from work, is really into me, but i dont wanna be a rebound!
question is should i just get her to go sumwhere wit me, or get nubmer first and then wait..... seems her IL is huge.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Evil-Rom

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look there is no such things as rules ok its all guidelines.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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and who siad you can not get her number first, your the one who is suposed to make the move. You can not relie on a girl to do that.
 

BLUEox117

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lol im goin real slow cause i dont wanna be a rebound.
thx for ur help tho.
i will be glad to post results in soon:) :cool:
 
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