"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Can ppl who have been friends for years get into a relationship?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Giles
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JCballin88
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In my casual observation of them, it seemed like none of them were ever going to date anyone else in the group, because they were just such good friends. Plus the dynamics were a little off, seeing as there are 4 guys and 2 girls.
Well sure enough one of the guys and one of the girls just started a relationship a few weeks ago. I'm not really sure how it happened, because it seemed like all 4 of the guys were permanently in the "friend zone" with the girls, although I always suspected that they were desperate to hook up with either of them.
Phenomenal One
Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I don't recomend it for long term, but for fun it can be amazing. I guess its the whole "how much do you wanna invest?" question. Some people just click, but just because someone is a best friend doesnt mean they are viable as a partner, its a different ball game, you gotta make the transition. If you stay in the friendzone mindset when you're in a relationship, its NOT going to work. Obviously.
Giles said:It's possible to date you're best friend, but you have to find a way to make the transition. Simply suggesting it won't work. Seize an opportunity when she's vulnerable and needs somebody right away. It's hard to do. I have a lot of girl friends I would like to bang, but only got one of them, and that was way before I knew what game was it was really just luck for me.
http://xkcd.com/513/
There are other types of friendship different from this one u know, not all my guy friends care for their female friends like this. They just don't give a **** about her life, they only care about having fun w/ them and not have any sexual attraction to them. So my question is with the type of friendship I have just mentioned above, is it possible for those people who are already friends to get into a relationship.Warrior74 said: