"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Can physical attraction develop over time?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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In women, this is especially present when it comes to men. You know how they say that in the first 2 minutes, a woman knows whether she'll fvck you or not? Well, when they meet a man, they quickly judge him based on first impression (60-70 % dominant male attitude, 30-40 % looks). Then they place him into either the buddy pile or the potential mate pile. If you get shot into Buddyville, you'll stay there till the end of time (unless you're willing to exert the truly herculean effort that it takes to get out). If you go into the other one, you have to fight to stay there.
So the answer is NO. I really wish it was otherwise, though.
