"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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can patterns be used elsewhere

Nocturnal

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i was just wondering, could SS or NLP type talking be used in situations other than with women?

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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ashlee Angel

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Yes.

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-Roman W
Eveygirl wants to be with him, Every guy wants to be like him.
 

Sir_Chancealot

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I saw something interesting today.

I didn't have any clients scheduled, so I was at home doing laundry, cleaning house, etc. (You know, being the good little b*tch!
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I happened to catch the "Dr. Phil" show. He was doing a thing on low self esteem. I thought I might pick up some insights in this chick I am currently patterning. Anyway, he STARTS RUNNING PATTERNS on one of the people on the show. Granted, it was for therapy, but they were patterns none-the-less.
 

irunthegame

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Yes...patterns were actually created by NLP and SS is kind of a pimpish of shoot of alot of NLP stuff...
 

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a lot of NLP in my opinion deals with persuasion. Like take Negation, for example, that could be an effective tool when arguing with others.

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Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin among the great number who are not good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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