"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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can patterns be used elsewhere

Nocturnal

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i was just wondering, could SS or NLP type talking be used in situations other than with women?

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"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ashlee Angel

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Yes.

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Eveygirl wants to be with him, Every guy wants to be like him.
 

Sir_Chancealot

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I saw something interesting today.

I didn't have any clients scheduled, so I was at home doing laundry, cleaning house, etc. (You know, being the good little b*tch!
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I happened to catch the "Dr. Phil" show. He was doing a thing on low self esteem. I thought I might pick up some insights in this chick I am currently patterning. Anyway, he STARTS RUNNING PATTERNS on one of the people on the show. Granted, it was for therapy, but they were patterns none-the-less.
 

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Yes...patterns were actually created by NLP and SS is kind of a pimpish of shoot of alot of NLP stuff...
 

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a lot of NLP in my opinion deals with persuasion. Like take Negation, for example, that could be an effective tool when arguing with others.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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