"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can or Do cougars/milfs lie about their relationship status?

DJnoob

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So far, im 4 for 4, all cougars in their 40s when i asked for their relationship status whether they are single, taken, divorced. They ALL said SINGLE!

So, do women in their 40s just dont lie when it comes to this sort of thing?

i am asking because, i dont have enough data in my head to compare to... as the whole making moves on cougs is new to me. tnx!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Duke

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I've never had any lie about their status, but many have lied about their age. and when I find out, its grounds for a final fuhk, then dismissal for good!
 

youngprodigy

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I'm 20 and I get a couple cougars tryna strike up a conversation here and there. They avoid talking about their relationship status completely, and if you wanna get in their pants you're better off not bringing it up either.
 

DJnoob

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so with cougs, does the 2-3 day rule still apply?
 

DJnoob

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the reason why i still ask about their status is i don't want to cross boundaries. I respect those sort of things.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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