"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can or Do cougars/milfs lie about their relationship status?

DJnoob

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So far, im 4 for 4, all cougars in their 40s when i asked for their relationship status whether they are single, taken, divorced. They ALL said SINGLE!

So, do women in their 40s just dont lie when it comes to this sort of thing?

i am asking because, i dont have enough data in my head to compare to... as the whole making moves on cougs is new to me. tnx!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Duke

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I've never had any lie about their status, but many have lied about their age. and when I find out, its grounds for a final fuhk, then dismissal for good!
 

youngprodigy

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I'm 20 and I get a couple cougars tryna strike up a conversation here and there. They avoid talking about their relationship status completely, and if you wanna get in their pants you're better off not bringing it up either.
 

DJnoob

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so with cougs, does the 2-3 day rule still apply?
 

DJnoob

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the reason why i still ask about their status is i don't want to cross boundaries. I respect those sort of things.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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