"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can or can't touch this?

Carrington

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Okay, I just need a few opinions on this so I'll make quick.

There is this girl (isn't there always), and every time I make her laugh or play it right by her, she always kino's me via grabbing my arm and during this short period of grace I am free to touch her back completely freely with her being very receptive of it.
However (and this can be less than a minute later) sometimes during normal conversation, or particularly any time I play ****y funny and I go in for a little kino, she looks at me offended and says "don't touch me".

I figure she's just not sure what she wants (her parents would never let her date) or is doing a really bad rendition of playing hard to get.
Anyhow, It ain't bothering me too much, as this girl is mainly a bit of fun for me, but I would like to know your opinions on why she goes from one extreme to the other so quickly.

Thanks for your thoughts guys,
- Carrington
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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InsidiousNstinct

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That's almost ALL women...shes trying to screw with ya man.

Two words.... ROLE REVERSAL ;)

See how that works.....
 

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Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
That's almost ALL women...shes trying to screw with ya man.

Two words.... ROLE REVERSAL ;)

See how that works.....
i like, i like

next time she touches you, do EXACTLY WHAT SHE DID

then see whos the boss :cool:
 

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Damn, I should have thought of that!

That's the bomb, I'll definitely give that to go next time I see her.

Thanks guys,
- Carrington
 

xanderbaz

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Originally posted by Carrington
...and during this short period of grace I am free to touch her back completely freely with her being very receptive of it.
However (and this can be less than a minute later) sometimes during normal conversation, or particularly any time I play ****y funny and I go in for a little kino, she looks at me offended and says "don't touch me".
"Short period of grace"? I figure you're not fully into the DJ teachings yet, so I'll be nice. :D
Like all women, she's definitely aware of what she wants on a subconscious level. Now, it's up to you to show her that you're "the sh!t". Simply put, use all that cool stuff from the DJBible (C/F, kino, etc.) to gain advantage.
Role reversal is great. Hot/cold is good too. (One day you seem interested in her, other day you ignore her completely).
Cheers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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