"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can or can't touch this?

Carrington

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Okay, I just need a few opinions on this so I'll make quick.

There is this girl (isn't there always), and every time I make her laugh or play it right by her, she always kino's me via grabbing my arm and during this short period of grace I am free to touch her back completely freely with her being very receptive of it.
However (and this can be less than a minute later) sometimes during normal conversation, or particularly any time I play ****y funny and I go in for a little kino, she looks at me offended and says "don't touch me".

I figure she's just not sure what she wants (her parents would never let her date) or is doing a really bad rendition of playing hard to get.
Anyhow, It ain't bothering me too much, as this girl is mainly a bit of fun for me, but I would like to know your opinions on why she goes from one extreme to the other so quickly.

Thanks for your thoughts guys,
- Carrington
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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InsidiousNstinct

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That's almost ALL women...shes trying to screw with ya man.

Two words.... ROLE REVERSAL ;)

See how that works.....
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
That's almost ALL women...shes trying to screw with ya man.

Two words.... ROLE REVERSAL ;)

See how that works.....
i like, i like

next time she touches you, do EXACTLY WHAT SHE DID

then see whos the boss :cool:
 

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Damn, I should have thought of that!

That's the bomb, I'll definitely give that to go next time I see her.

Thanks guys,
- Carrington
 

xanderbaz

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Originally posted by Carrington
...and during this short period of grace I am free to touch her back completely freely with her being very receptive of it.
However (and this can be less than a minute later) sometimes during normal conversation, or particularly any time I play ****y funny and I go in for a little kino, she looks at me offended and says "don't touch me".
"Short period of grace"? I figure you're not fully into the DJ teachings yet, so I'll be nice. :D
Like all women, she's definitely aware of what she wants on a subconscious level. Now, it's up to you to show her that you're "the sh!t". Simply put, use all that cool stuff from the DJBible (C/F, kino, etc.) to gain advantage.
Role reversal is great. Hot/cold is good too. (One day you seem interested in her, other day you ignore her completely).
Cheers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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