There is this girl in one of my classes in college who I am really into and it seemed like she was really into me too. We always talked and laughed in class and we would walk to the next class together. Every time she saw me she would smile and blush and when we talked she would smile really wide and stare at me. I was sure that she was crazy for me. But then her friend tells me that she doesn't like me and that she likes another guy. I didn't really believe her at first but then she showed me a text conversation with the girl and sure enough she said that she liked a different guy. So this really pissed me off and made me feel like an idiot because I really thought she liked me. I started no contact today. I noticed she kept staring at me and trying to get my attention a lot. I really do like this girl so is there a way that I can use no contact to make her want me? Have any of you guys ever had a situation like this and used no contact? Or should I just move on and work on my other plates? Thanks in advance.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Can no contact help me in this situation?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Just ask her out and you will get your answer.
Just because she likes someone else doesn't mean that other guy gives a sh!t about her. Sometimes women shoot too high in their aim for the prince on a Phucken white horse.
Just because she likes someone else doesn't mean that other guy gives a sh!t about her. Sometimes women shoot too high in their aim for the prince on a Phucken white horse.
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Whether you call it 'no contact' or being aloof, do it.