"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can moderators vote to ban trolls who serve no purpose than to troll!

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't you think you're part of that problem?

Your last 5 threads are about...50 Cent trolling his "own kind"...How are my brothers in Jamaica...RIP the guy who played Shang Tsung in the Mortal Kombat film...how hot Mackenzie Dern is...and now this.

You know this is a seduction forum, right? I know this is Anything Else, but you seem to spend a majority of your time talking about random bullsh** (of which you're generally under/misinformed on).
 

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Lol….Please, Let Eli keep posting his usual stuff as I find them entertaining and a good read while Im eating breakfast. Im sure there a good read for some of the moderators here who are tired of reading dating questions all day, or some of the Vets out here who chose to stay and help out. The anything else section is my favorite section here and Im usually eating donuts and drinking corona giving it a look. Part of growing up in the sosuave realm is talking about dating and relationships can take its toll and you want a break from that to relax and get a breath of fvcking fresh air. That Dopamine hit is the reason why we keep coming back to Sosuave and that brotherly community that we have whether we like it or not, he’s not breaking any rules when he’s talking about anything else in the anything else section.
 

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I'm just glad there are folks here that are more hated than myself. :eek::eek:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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