"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can moderators vote to ban trolls who serve no purpose than to troll!

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't you think you're part of that problem?

Your last 5 threads are about...50 Cent trolling his "own kind"...How are my brothers in Jamaica...RIP the guy who played Shang Tsung in the Mortal Kombat film...how hot Mackenzie Dern is...and now this.

You know this is a seduction forum, right? I know this is Anything Else, but you seem to spend a majority of your time talking about random bullsh** (of which you're generally under/misinformed on).
 

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Lol….Please, Let Eli keep posting his usual stuff as I find them entertaining and a good read while Im eating breakfast. Im sure there a good read for some of the moderators here who are tired of reading dating questions all day, or some of the Vets out here who chose to stay and help out. The anything else section is my favorite section here and Im usually eating donuts and drinking corona giving it a look. Part of growing up in the sosuave realm is talking about dating and relationships can take its toll and you want a break from that to relax and get a breath of fvcking fresh air. That Dopamine hit is the reason why we keep coming back to Sosuave and that brotherly community that we have whether we like it or not, he’s not breaking any rules when he’s talking about anything else in the anything else section.
 

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I'm just glad there are folks here that are more hated than myself. :eek::eek:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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