Hey. My gf likes to talk to and have other males as friends. She say that they are just friends and tells me when I question her about it that i am being insecure. She does not keep anything from me and will tell me when shes talked to them or seen them, so shes not going behind my back or anything.
She says that she likes males as friends over females as they tend not to be two faced and b1tchy. She says that when she was growin up she was a bit of a tom boy and likes having males has friends. She is also the only girl out of her siblings and grew up with three brothers. she therefore somewhat enjoys typically male orientated sports and past times such as soccer, boxing, poker and video games etc.
She has about 4 or 5 male friends who she speaks to and sometimes sees. Two of these she sees more regularly. (at least once a week) The one lives accross the road from her and they have therefore grown up together living just accross the road, she used to go out with this guy back in the day years ago. The other is a friend from school who she sms txts and sees around once a week to go for a drive in his car and go to street races etc.
I try not to make to big a deal about it as i do not wanna come accross as insecure. But deep down i do get a little jelous and insecure knowing that she is spending time with other guys, which only seems a little natural.
I do not wanna go overboard on this and stop her seeing these guys or show that i am too bothered after all she has known and had friendships with these guys years before i started seeing her. i have only been with her about 7 months.
However i am aware of what these guys are probably after and tell her this. I bet they think about sleeping with her and would if she gave them the chance. I believe that men will allways want more, but women can be just friends. I only have to look back at my afc days when i would try and be friends with girls in the hope that one day it would develop into something more.
Whats your opinion on this guys, it probably been discussed before but i could not find it when i did a search.
She says that she likes males as friends over females as they tend not to be two faced and b1tchy. She says that when she was growin up she was a bit of a tom boy and likes having males has friends. She is also the only girl out of her siblings and grew up with three brothers. she therefore somewhat enjoys typically male orientated sports and past times such as soccer, boxing, poker and video games etc.
She has about 4 or 5 male friends who she speaks to and sometimes sees. Two of these she sees more regularly. (at least once a week) The one lives accross the road from her and they have therefore grown up together living just accross the road, she used to go out with this guy back in the day years ago. The other is a friend from school who she sms txts and sees around once a week to go for a drive in his car and go to street races etc.
I try not to make to big a deal about it as i do not wanna come accross as insecure. But deep down i do get a little jelous and insecure knowing that she is spending time with other guys, which only seems a little natural.
I do not wanna go overboard on this and stop her seeing these guys or show that i am too bothered after all she has known and had friendships with these guys years before i started seeing her. i have only been with her about 7 months.
However i am aware of what these guys are probably after and tell her this. I bet they think about sleeping with her and would if she gave them the chance. I believe that men will allways want more, but women can be just friends. I only have to look back at my afc days when i would try and be friends with girls in the hope that one day it would develop into something more.
Whats your opinion on this guys, it probably been discussed before but i could not find it when i did a search.
