"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can LTR turn towards friendship zone?

Colinski282

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Okay so I made a previous post about my g/f's lack of sex the past month. We have been dating for over 6 months and was sorting some ish about the current situations and put forth the knowledge i have gained from my last post.

Here is the current sitaution of our relationship. I took her virginity and she is in HS. She loves to stay on the phone and looks forward to seeing me on my days off and weekends. She enjoys my company. She still likes to kiss and hold each other but sex is really lacking.

Could this LTR be moving towards the friendship zone? Or is it going Platonic?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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chandidas

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just bcoz u guys are not having enough sex, it doesnt mean u guys are headed to FZ.
once u develop a LTR, u guys shud becom good friends
 

poohead

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it turns into friendship zone if she loses attraction for you, which could happen at any time. it happened to me.
 
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