"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can LTR turn towards friendship zone?

Colinski282

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Okay so I made a previous post about my g/f's lack of sex the past month. We have been dating for over 6 months and was sorting some ish about the current situations and put forth the knowledge i have gained from my last post.

Here is the current sitaution of our relationship. I took her virginity and she is in HS. She loves to stay on the phone and looks forward to seeing me on my days off and weekends. She enjoys my company. She still likes to kiss and hold each other but sex is really lacking.

Could this LTR be moving towards the friendship zone? Or is it going Platonic?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chandidas

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just bcoz u guys are not having enough sex, it doesnt mean u guys are headed to FZ.
once u develop a LTR, u guys shud becom good friends
 

poohead

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it turns into friendship zone if she loses attraction for you, which could happen at any time. it happened to me.
 
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