"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can I get results like this?

joverby

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I'm trying to get some more muscle mass, I'm pretty skinny but have a little muscle now. I used to have 6 pack abs and little pecks but always pretty small arms.

I'm like 5'11 and 150 pounds, and I'm 23 y/o. Currently have a little flab on my lower stomach. The foundation for my abs again and decent pecks. But still, little arms.

My goal is to lose the stomach fat, while getting my abs back and gaining more chest, shoulder, arm and leg muscle.

Now here's the tricky part. I want to do this so I can always manage and maintain my gains easily. So I just want to do this by changing my diet (which I've started) I started eating a lot more protein and cutting back on my fatty foods.

Right now just doing it with wide/close grip push ups, sit ups, the thing where I lay on my back and do leg lifts (for lower abs?), and standing alf raises for my calf muscles (work REALLY good). And I do disc golf almost every day for my cardio. Started using some dumbells for my for arms too but it's a little too heavy so I can't do as many reps as I'd like so I'll get lighter ones.

Pretty much I just want to avoid a gym and supplements, I just want something I can easily maintain and won't get all fat if I stop working out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EFFORT

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joverby said:
Pretty much I just want to avoid a gym
Sorry to break it to you, but you'll need a gym to add any considerable amount of muscle mass to your frame.
 

Fuglydude

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EFFORT pretty much nailed it on the head...

On top of training, you're gonna need to follow a well-planned out diet consistently. If being ripped was easy, then everyone would be ripped.
 
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