"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can I get results like this?

joverby

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I'm trying to get some more muscle mass, I'm pretty skinny but have a little muscle now. I used to have 6 pack abs and little pecks but always pretty small arms.

I'm like 5'11 and 150 pounds, and I'm 23 y/o. Currently have a little flab on my lower stomach. The foundation for my abs again and decent pecks. But still, little arms.

My goal is to lose the stomach fat, while getting my abs back and gaining more chest, shoulder, arm and leg muscle.

Now here's the tricky part. I want to do this so I can always manage and maintain my gains easily. So I just want to do this by changing my diet (which I've started) I started eating a lot more protein and cutting back on my fatty foods.

Right now just doing it with wide/close grip push ups, sit ups, the thing where I lay on my back and do leg lifts (for lower abs?), and standing alf raises for my calf muscles (work REALLY good). And I do disc golf almost every day for my cardio. Started using some dumbells for my for arms too but it's a little too heavy so I can't do as many reps as I'd like so I'll get lighter ones.

Pretty much I just want to avoid a gym and supplements, I just want something I can easily maintain and won't get all fat if I stop working out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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EFFORT

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joverby said:
Pretty much I just want to avoid a gym
Sorry to break it to you, but you'll need a gym to add any considerable amount of muscle mass to your frame.
 

Fuglydude

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EFFORT pretty much nailed it on the head...

On top of training, you're gonna need to follow a well-planned out diet consistently. If being ripped was easy, then everyone would be ripped.
 
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