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Can I get Asian girls as a black man?

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They filter me out over the phone when they hear my deep voice “you black” “bebe which country you from” typical Eastern Europe chat.

I get it, black men take less ****, they can’t give sh1t service and expect you to not ask money back or get confrontational. Sometimes its the size, they sometimes say I’m too big. Either way it’s not a racist thing imo. I’ve said I’m Spanish and turn up and bang then no complaints.

ANYWAY, I’ve done some thinking and I’m not going to pay for sex any more, I don’t need it, not even for sexual thrill/excitement, I can use my gf for that. No more escorts for Murk.
Well it looked like you had a successful hobby before you quit it. I've heard of people saying, "just say you are from Cuba", I guess "Spanish" is a variation of that. Its encouraging to hear that racism didn't ruin your experience.

I know what you are saying with the other excuses, but I feel that the reason some of them say no blacks, is they are trying to please their other racist white clients and feel that will somehow taint their fantasy, especially if it's a young barely legal, or really exotic type of escort and their net income stream would go down.

For example, how many 18 year old escorts did you see? How many Indian, Filipina, or exotic looking type of escorts did you see that didn't hassle you about your race?
 

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Well it looked like you had a successful hobby before you quit it. I've heard of people saying, "just say you are from Cuba", I guess "Spanish" is a variation of that. Its encouraging to hear that racism didn't ruin your experience.

I know what you are saying with the other excuses, but I feel that the reason some of them say no blacks, is they are trying to please their other racist white clients and feel that will somehow taint their fantasy, especially if it's a young barely legal, or really exotic type of escort and their net income stream would go down.

For example, how many 18 year old escorts did you see? How many Indian, Filipina, or exotic looking type of escorts did you see that didn't hassle you about your race?
Yes, we don't really have many South American/Latino people in the UK so Spanish was just my go-to meaning I'm tanned, they think white, I think when I get through that door and they see me they are not saying no (it's easy money when a handsome in shape man pays them for sex as opposed to the usual troglodytes paying for sex).

I agree it's partly to appease the white clients, who may not be racist, but to know some big masculine long d!ck guy isn't allowed to bang them probably makes it more appealing, again, they're not racist just insecure. Black men make other races insecure. I felt it myself. The thing is, a lot of black men are just the same as white men, shy, insecure, not dominant like the stereotypes have people think. Most of my friends and all my family are black so we both know black people can't be generalised as masculine with big d!cks.

Regarding escorts I saw, a lot were young, 18 I dunno, they always knock years off so you can't trust ages. I did bang a girl so inexperienced it was like a first date. We were on the best, she seemed nervous, we started kissing (full clothed) and it turned into sex, just like real life scenarios. Usually its, you hand them the money "take your clothes off" while they go to stash it, they walk in and go to business. Anyway I digress, it was mainly eastern europeans - Romanian, Hungarian, Polish, Russian, Some Colombian/brazilian. It's legal here in the UK too, so a completely different ball game to the US, where I've also punted, it's much riskier in US, you feel like any of them could be an undercover sting. That made it more risky and appealing to me, I did escorts in Miami and Orlando, way more expensive and less bang for your buck, I feel sorry for US punters.

Lastly, you shouldn't be caring about an escort's racism, seriously wtf, they don't see black guys? You choose someone else. They don't owe you sh!t, take your money elsewhere. Seems like you are not using escorts like I was, for the fun/thrill, rather than any deeper meaning.
 

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Seems like you are not using escorts like I was, for the fun/thrill, rather than any deeper meaning.
Just to be clear, I don't use escorts. That is why I was asking about your experience as a mixed guy navigating through that aspect of it.
When I did use them in the past, 8 years ago, which was a couple of them, then there was no race issue in any encounter. The aspect of discussion here is just one of intrigue, nothing more at this time. In fact, my only recent encounters with any escort have strictly been on an "OnlyFans" basis (before Easter, 2022). Good insights on how blacks make other races insecure.

My issue with escorts in the past was that I would be mis-identified as being below the age of 18 years old. That's because I'm really pure in my demeanor (ie I don't engage in pre-maritial sex, etc...) so I give off this below 18 y/o vibe despite the fact I was 38 years old at the time.
I'm 46 years old right now and if I get mistaken for an under 18 year old again that would be interesting.
 
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Just to be clear, I don't use escorts. That is why I was asking about your experience as a mixed guy navigating through that aspect of it.
When I did use them in the past, 8 years ago, which was a couple of them, then there was no race issue in any encounter. The aspect of discussion here is just one of intrigue, nothing more at this time. In fact, my only recent encounters with any escort have strictly been on an "OnlyFans" basis (before Easter, 2022).
Good to hear but the OF thing IMO is much worse, stay away from that sh!t man.

Regarding race and my experience, I'm attractive and handsome so I've fvcked escorts with NBA (no blacks allowed) policies. I'm polite, smell good, drive an AMG63, I rock up, they know I'm not gonna rob them (which happens A LOT, especially by black men). I've never encountered racism from any girls, paid or otherwise.
 
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The easiest and most sure-fire way to do it? Do well with above average looking white girls. Asian American women follow whatever white women do. I even had a Korean friend that used to be an incel, got his act together, rejected Asian girls due to being friendzoned by them in his youth, only went for white girls and succeeded, and had Asian American women desperate to screw him.
This is actually good advice. Asians are so stuck up, especially Asian Americans, that you have to basically get them to come to you. Going after hot white girls is a great way to make them insecure.
 

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I'll never get the obsession with Asian women. The best-looking ones are always half white, anyway lols.
 

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I am going to get a lot of hate for this and probably piss a lot of people off but it is just an observation I have made. In whatever US city Asian Americans, primarily East Asians (Korean and Chinese in particular), dominate, the vibe becomes soulless. I notice that Asian American culture is literally all about clout, social standing, and has little to no room for empathy and human emotions. People complain about how much Vancouver, San Francisco, and Toronto suck for dating and meeting women. Well, it is no mystery that these cities have a ton of Asians. The misery rubs off on local white women as well and it makes these places so miserable.

Obsession with social status, obsession with social standing, and shallow demeanors are hallmarks for how Asian Americans operate. A lot of them are also very insecure and dorky due to their upbringing so that makes them quite passive-aggressive and extremely disrespectful towards people as a whole. While other cultures do this too, even whites, Asian Americans take it to an entirely different level.

Asian American women (primarily Korean and Chinese) from my experience tend to be downright insecure, cringey in behavior, rude, miserable, snotty, and quite hateful. What I hate more than anything is how they sound all innocent or try to but as just downright rude and emotionless underneath all of that. Truly a mess to deal with.

I tend to avoid them like the plague but the worst thing is when you are out gaming a white girl and her Asian friend is in the picture, she will always be the main one to ****block you.

I've been around a lot of Asian Americans and I have to say, most of them are quite miserable and shallow people. The worst thing is how desperately they try to fit in with whatever mainstream white culture dominates, usually SJW and left wing liberals since they are in big cities, and that leads to them being even more annoying. The thing I hate is how you have to basically work with them if you rise in the corporate world.

Kiss ups, cringey, rude, passive aggressive, annoying, and a pain to deal with. The worst are by far Korean Americans but Chinese Americans are runner ups.

However, I have not had the same bad experiences with Koreans and Chinese people from their own home countries. One of my best friends was a rich Korean kid from Seoul and the guy was one of the coolest people I knew to date. Ironically, some sellout Korean American dudes hated him like Satan due to him being able to easily get hot white girls.

Most of all, I have noticed that the vast majority of white dudes with yellow fever are screwed up in the head. Most of them tend to be weaboos and Incels who struggle with white women. Most of the times, they end up in a relationship where the girl wears the pants.
 

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Filipinos beg black culture hard, signing, dancing, dress sense. I find them sexy af, there’s no way a black man can’t get a filipina. I was seeing a half wife half Filipino girl, younger sister of a girl I went to school with. Great cheek bones, almond eyes, hips/ass.
Sounds like I need to find some Filipinas in New York from all the posts in this thread about them! Looking forward to it :D


I’m half black/white but very pale, I look Mexican or North African (Algeria/Morocco etc) so I’m kind of desperate for a black or mixed woman to give me black kids. I’m the whitest in my family and I have an issue I guess. I just recently came to terms with the fact my kid might be 3/4 white and basically even more removed from my black culture. Part of me feels stupid for the colour of my kids being an issue, the other part is adamant I can’t breed a white woman and dilute my genes further. Latina seems a great option for me.
I took a DNA test and found out that I'm 15% White/European (Spanish or Portuguese). I wonder what kind of surprises that could have for my future kids, they could turn out blonde or blue eyed or extremely light skinned.
 

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Sounds like I need to find some Filipinas in New York from all the posts in this thread about them! Looking forward to it :D




I took a DNA test and found out that I'm 15% White/European (Spanish or Portuguese). I wonder what kind of surprises that could have for my future kids, they could turn out blonde or blue eyed or extremely light skinned.
I'm half Jamaican, I know you're Caribbean, I have a Jamaican mixed great grandmother who is half portuguese and looks just like me. Due to the nature of the islands (slavery) we are all mix an match, heavy Spanish/Portuguese influences and the rest.
 

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I know a guy who’s 3/4 black 1/4 white (he looks black) who’s married to a nice Vietnamese girl.

overall, Asians are probably more racist to blacks than we are (white).

it’s like anything else. Some will, some won’t, so what.
 
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I took a DNA test and found out that I'm 15% White/European (Spanish or Portuguese). I wonder what kind of surprises that could have for my future kids, they could turn out blonde or blue eyed or extremely light skinned.
I'm about 25% British/Scandinavian, I'm pretty curious too lol. This is why I would rather have kids with a white woman even though I'm more attracted to Latinas, Arabs, and Asians lol. Partially why I wanted to stay with my ex because she was 5ft 10, blonde, and blue eyes so we would have had some delicious looking kids lol. The girl I'm seeing is a light skinned Latina that gets sunburned lol.
 

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I am going to get a lot of hate for this and probably piss a lot of people off but it is just an observation I have made. In whatever US city Asian Americans, primarily East Asians (Korean and Chinese in particular), dominate, the vibe becomes soulless. I notice that Asian American culture is literally all about clout, social standing, and has little to no room for empathy and human emotions. People complain about how much Vancouver, San Francisco, and Toronto suck for dating and meeting women. Well, it is no mystery that these cities have a ton of Asians. The misery rubs off on local white women as well and it makes these places so miserable.

Obsession with social status, obsession with social standing, and shallow demeanors are hallmarks for how Asian Americans operate. A lot of them are also very insecure and dorky due to their upbringing so that makes them quite passive-aggressive and extremely disrespectful towards people as a whole. While other cultures do this too, even whites, Asian Americans take it to an entirely different level.

Asian American women (primarily Korean and Chinese) from my experience tend to be downright insecure, cringey in behavior, rude, miserable, snotty, and quite hateful. What I hate more than anything is how they sound all innocent or try to but as just downright rude and emotionless underneath all of that. Truly a mess to deal with.

I tend to avoid them like the plague but the worst thing is when you are out gaming a white girl and her Asian friend is in the picture, she will always be the main one to ****block you.

I've been around a lot of Asian Americans and I have to say, most of them are quite miserable and shallow people. The worst thing is how desperately they try to fit in with whatever mainstream white culture dominates, usually SJW and left wing liberals since they are in big cities, and that leads to them being even more annoying. The thing I hate is how you have to basically work with them if you rise in the corporate world.

Kiss ups, cringey, rude, passive aggressive, annoying, and a pain to deal with. The worst are by far Korean Americans but Chinese Americans are runner ups.

However, I have not had the same bad experiences with Koreans and Chinese people from their own home countries. One of my best friends was a rich Korean kid from Seoul and the guy was one of the coolest people I knew to date. Ironically, some sellout Korean American dudes hated him like Satan due to him being able to easily get hot white girls.

Most of all, I have noticed that the vast majority of white dudes with yellow fever are screwed up in the head. Most of them tend to be weaboos and Incels who struggle with white women. Most of the times, they end up in a relationship where the girl wears the pants.
Thank you for showing me what I'm not missing.
 

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My cousin married a Filipina and his life has been a living hell. He's like a punching bag to her, and that's like his only value to her.
 

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According to this movie clip, black men are too beaucoup for Asian chicks:

 

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According to this movie clip, black men are too beaucoup for Asian chicks:

I ended up watching this movie based on that clip. Has a twisted opener of a crazy drill sargent and was a nasty movie, but that scene was interesting. Saw it once in 2017 which is kinda like yesterday with me. Just bought a 58 inch tv for the first time that year and watched it on that.
 

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It's OVER for BlackJohnCels.
It has been like that since the late 00s so its not something over recently. Its only in the 90s (when I was in my 20s) I never remembered race bs like that. It was just about money or the lack of it.
 

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I took a DNA test and found out that I'm 15% White/European (Spanish or Portuguese). I wonder what kind of surprises that could have for my future kids, they could turn out blonde or blue eyed or extremely light skinned.
I'm on one of the DNA sites, and once I get to 5th cousins or so, I get a lot of black cousins. Doing genealogical research, I've learned that I have a few ancestors 6+ generations out that were slaveowners ... :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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Kind of related but kind of not, anyone else noticing a lot of Indian dudes with Asian women lately? I swear, I have seen them go interracial more with Asian girls than even white girls.
 
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According to this movie clip, black men are too beaucoup for Asian chicks:

I had an asian friend servicing me and she said that If
I'm on one of the DNA sites, and once I get to 5th cousins or so, I get a lot of black cousins. Doing genealogical research, I've learned that I have a few ancestors 6+ generations out that were slaveowners ... :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
I have slaveowner ancestors too lol. They also did a good deal in clearing the state of Tennessee of native Americans and helped developed a certain affluent suburb county of Nashville lol.
 
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