"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can i get anygirl number?? How can i be smooth about it?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WesCottII

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Hi again.

Here are my tips:

1) There are some girls, no matter how smooth you are, who will not be interested. These women are to be dropped.
2) There is no magic script so you can any number.
3) It's all about practicing/finding what works for you.

In summary Practice! Practice! Practice!
 
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Ok like what?? Sorry for being just a butt ...But i really dont get much...you know more then i. So share me some tips.
 
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well a good example is...

i was at a store and they didnt have the pants i wanted on sale, so i asked the hot lady who worked there to write down the style number for me, and while she was writing i easily couldve said something funny like 'why dont you write your number down too, then when i go looking for thepants you can come wiht me' or something along those lines

or just the old 'whats your phone number?'

another one-- i was leaving a new years eve party early because i had to march in the rose parade, the girl said 'ill be looking for you in the parade' and i said 'how about you give me yuor number, and ill call you when im on tv and wave and say hi' and she gave it to me of course....


you just gotta practice, thats the most important part, start with 'whats your phone number?' and move on to complicated things based on the situation, like hwat i did
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I dont think you can just ask for the number. You have to talk to the girl first dude.:)
 
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sounds like you need to read the bible. Look for the information there. This will save a lot of your time

Hope this helped
 
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I like to take out my cell phone while talking to them, input their name, and then hand it to them at the screen where they type in their number. Read it back to them (a different one than what they gave you) to make sure it isn't fake, and that's it.
 
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You can get any girl if u adapt to the type of girl she is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You : Hey it was nice talking to you, we should get some coffee sometime.

Her : Yeah, sounds good.

You : Cool, whats your number?

If they commit to meeting up with you for whatever reason then you don't have to play the numbers game with numbers. It is a quick indicator of interest.

Or if you having trouble doing this, then go with the easy out.

You : It was nice talking to you, can I give you a call sometime?

Then you can play phone tag.
 
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Get out and make some mistakes! You'll eventually, I hope, figure out what works and what doesn't.
 
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