"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can i get anygirl number?? How can i be smooth about it?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WesCottII

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Hi again.

Here are my tips:

1) There are some girls, no matter how smooth you are, who will not be interested. These women are to be dropped.
2) There is no magic script so you can any number.
3) It's all about practicing/finding what works for you.

In summary Practice! Practice! Practice!
 

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Ok like what?? Sorry for being just a butt ...But i really dont get much...you know more then i. So share me some tips.
 

shagnscoob

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well a good example is...

i was at a store and they didnt have the pants i wanted on sale, so i asked the hot lady who worked there to write down the style number for me, and while she was writing i easily couldve said something funny like 'why dont you write your number down too, then when i go looking for thepants you can come wiht me' or something along those lines

or just the old 'whats your phone number?'

another one-- i was leaving a new years eve party early because i had to march in the rose parade, the girl said 'ill be looking for you in the parade' and i said 'how about you give me yuor number, and ill call you when im on tv and wave and say hi' and she gave it to me of course....


you just gotta practice, thats the most important part, start with 'whats your phone number?' and move on to complicated things based on the situation, like hwat i did
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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texasdude79

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I dont think you can just ask for the number. You have to talk to the girl first dude.:)
 

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sounds like you need to read the bible. Look for the information there. This will save a lot of your time

Hope this helped
 
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I like to take out my cell phone while talking to them, input their name, and then hand it to them at the screen where they type in their number. Read it back to them (a different one than what they gave you) to make sure it isn't fake, and that's it.
 

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You can get any girl if u adapt to the type of girl she is.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You : Hey it was nice talking to you, we should get some coffee sometime.

Her : Yeah, sounds good.

You : Cool, whats your number?

If they commit to meeting up with you for whatever reason then you don't have to play the numbers game with numbers. It is a quick indicator of interest.

Or if you having trouble doing this, then go with the easy out.

You : It was nice talking to you, can I give you a call sometime?

Then you can play phone tag.
 

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Get out and make some mistakes! You'll eventually, I hope, figure out what works and what doesn't.
 
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