"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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can I get another opinion on this

MacAvoy

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In the Weird Day...ex GF & baby's momma thread "TheLadiesMan" is tryin to tell me I'm being condesending, meanwhile all I see is a guy trying to rationalize why he should be pining over his 2 exes? I've been the only one responding, can some of you take a look at the weird day thread and give me your opinions.

I've also done some homework and looked up his other threads. It all started last December with his stuck in AFC mode thread, a couple months ago he talked about his

personal life full of drama where once again the first person he mention's is his BM.

Even back in February he had drama talking about his Bud's ex g/f wherein he also mentions his BM again.


Am I being to harsh on the guy or is he stuck in the past?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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joekerr31

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dont have the time to go back and read a bunch of posts.

to be honest, when someone disagrees with you ro what not, and if the debate can't be somewhat cordial, best to just ignore them.

past posts aren't always indicative of the validity in someones opinion - as people learn and grow over time.
 

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I must admit, no one seemed so forgiving when it came to MacAvoy and thinking about with his ex.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=117930

The difference is,

1. Ladies Man is apparently having plenty of sex with her.
2. He really never did mention getting back together.
3. It's his baby's mama. Of course you're going to think a lot about someone you see twice a week, even without the attraction.
 

MacAvoy

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i agree that I was totally AFC when it came to her, its called learning from your mistakes and trying to share your knowledge, isn't that what this community is for?
 
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