"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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can I get another opinion on this

MacAvoy

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In the Weird Day...ex GF & baby's momma thread "TheLadiesMan" is tryin to tell me I'm being condesending, meanwhile all I see is a guy trying to rationalize why he should be pining over his 2 exes? I've been the only one responding, can some of you take a look at the weird day thread and give me your opinions.

I've also done some homework and looked up his other threads. It all started last December with his stuck in AFC mode thread, a couple months ago he talked about his

personal life full of drama where once again the first person he mention's is his BM.

Even back in February he had drama talking about his Bud's ex g/f wherein he also mentions his BM again.


Am I being to harsh on the guy or is he stuck in the past?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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joekerr31

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dont have the time to go back and read a bunch of posts.

to be honest, when someone disagrees with you ro what not, and if the debate can't be somewhat cordial, best to just ignore them.

past posts aren't always indicative of the validity in someones opinion - as people learn and grow over time.
 

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I must admit, no one seemed so forgiving when it came to MacAvoy and thinking about with his ex.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=117930

The difference is,

1. Ladies Man is apparently having plenty of sex with her.
2. He really never did mention getting back together.
3. It's his baby's mama. Of course you're going to think a lot about someone you see twice a week, even without the attraction.
 

MacAvoy

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i agree that I was totally AFC when it came to her, its called learning from your mistakes and trying to share your knowledge, isn't that what this community is for?
 
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