"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can I escape the "Friend Zone"?

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A number of women I had flings with at one time ended up pushing me into the nefarious "friend zone". I still see some of them now and again and would like to try again, now that I'm wiser.

Is it possible to change their first impressions of me as a "nice guy" and can I ever escape the "friend zone" once I'm there?

Do you think it's possible just to turn on my newfound charm and confidence and change their perception of me?

(I have managed to win back one of my ex's interest, but it took a whole year without seeing her, and now I'm not interested in her. So I know it is possible, but I don't want to have to lie low for a year before making a move).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you already had sex with them, then it should be alot easier to get back into the sex zone with them vs being in the friend zone and never having had sex and wanting to change that.

Its possible but I can't help you on how to do it.
 
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It's not possible. Chances are that your ex's interest in you was temporary and probably around 60%.
 
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Thanks. But now I see it as a challenge and I'm determined to prove it's possible somehow. :)

If I find a way, I'll let you all know.
 
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