"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Can I borrow a piece of paper?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
We tend to overanaylse things to... or misread signs in order to support your desire. Something along the principle of, "I think she likes me therefore she must." Thereby you reading the signs which support that belief and rejected those which refute it.
NotaGoatLover
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Instead of showing that your Husband Material (supplying)..
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"can I borrow a piece of paper?"
(look at her with one eyebrow raised and look like your thimking for a second)
you: " no,no your not worthy" then turn away
when I did it she kind of got a "are you serious/ very funny" look on her face,then I turned and looked at her with an eyebrow still raised and looked serious for a second, then laughed and gave her a piece, and a day later were going out.
Dimebag_Darrell
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LOL! Next time a girl asks me for something I will stare into space grining for half a minuite trying to think of something funny.Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
A peice of paper....? Wouldn't it just be easier for you to tell me the number so that I can put it in my cell phone?
The only problem with this is it took me minute to think of this...in real time you don't have the luxery. If you can think of something witty then say it. If not...give her one h*ll of a smile and a piece of paper. There will be other oppurtunities.....
NotaGoatLover
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Good stuff