"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can I assume?

The LadyKiller

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A couple of weeks ago, I met a HB 9.5. I wanted to try and experiment - if I assume she will say yes to anything I ask (and not pose it as a question), will she comply more? It ties into the "assume she already likes you" strategy. So far, it has worked, though on a very small scale. I've gotten her number and casually gone out with her once by doing this. That brings me to this post.

A few days ago, HB 9.5 randomly began to text me about hoping to get off from work early for her birthday later this week. When I asked she had in mind provided she was able to get off, she said she'd want to go out.

Tying in to what I wrote earlier, can I assume I've been invited to the celebration (unless it's her and some girl friends)? I mean, HB 9.5 brought the topic up to me, right?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ruthless

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Ask her out. Upside-you go out alone. Downside- you get the solid invite to the party.
 

PlayHer Man

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Like I say almost daily --> F*ck first analyze later.

Don't analyze women you're not f*cking. Decide exactly what you want from a woman and go for it. If she rejects you.. move onto the next.

This is not to say you must f*ck her immediately after meeting her. All you need to do is not analyze or prioritize her until she f*cks you. Don't go out of your way, don't chat for hours on the phone, don't go shopping with her, etc. The more neutral/non-sexual time you spend with her.. the more likely you will be friend zoned or put in the "men to exploit" (beta fag) zone.

A relationship is the most valuable thing a man offers a woman. Don't give it away for free (like most beta fags do). :nono:

Its the man's job to f*ck and the woman's job to "bond" and seduce. Most modern women don't bother with this job anymore because men are so desperate to wife them up on first sight.
 

TheCWord

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PlayHer Man said:
Its the man's job to f*ck and the woman's job to "bond" and seduce. Most modern women don't bother with this job anymore because men are so desperate to wife them up on first sight.


If there is anything PHM gets consistently right, it's this.

And to respond to your OP: no, you actually need an invite. Especially because she's new. Why are you so anxious about going, anyway? Trying to be the boyfriend? Slow down.
 

Bokanovsky

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PlayHer Man said:
This is not to say you must f*ck her immediately after meeting her. All you need to do is not analyze or prioritize her until she f*cks you. Don't go out of your way, don't chat for hours on the phone, don't go shopping with her, etc. The more neutral/non-sexual time you spend with her.. the more likely you will be friend zoned or put in the "men to exploit" (beta fag) zone.
This is solid advice. Trying to analyze what a chick you just met says or does is a waste of time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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