“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Can I assume?

The LadyKiller

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A couple of weeks ago, I met a HB 9.5. I wanted to try and experiment - if I assume she will say yes to anything I ask (and not pose it as a question), will she comply more? It ties into the "assume she already likes you" strategy. So far, it has worked, though on a very small scale. I've gotten her number and casually gone out with her once by doing this. That brings me to this post.

A few days ago, HB 9.5 randomly began to text me about hoping to get off from work early for her birthday later this week. When I asked she had in mind provided she was able to get off, she said she'd want to go out.

Tying in to what I wrote earlier, can I assume I've been invited to the celebration (unless it's her and some girl friends)? I mean, HB 9.5 brought the topic up to me, right?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ask her out. Upside-you go out alone. Downside- you get the solid invite to the party.
 

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Like I say almost daily --> F*ck first analyze later.

Don't analyze women you're not f*cking. Decide exactly what you want from a woman and go for it. If she rejects you.. move onto the next.

This is not to say you must f*ck her immediately after meeting her. All you need to do is not analyze or prioritize her until she f*cks you. Don't go out of your way, don't chat for hours on the phone, don't go shopping with her, etc. The more neutral/non-sexual time you spend with her.. the more likely you will be friend zoned or put in the "men to exploit" (beta fag) zone.

A relationship is the most valuable thing a man offers a woman. Don't give it away for free (like most beta fags do). :nono:

Its the man's job to f*ck and the woman's job to "bond" and seduce. Most modern women don't bother with this job anymore because men are so desperate to wife them up on first sight.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Its the man's job to f*ck and the woman's job to "bond" and seduce. Most modern women don't bother with this job anymore because men are so desperate to wife them up on first sight.


If there is anything PHM gets consistently right, it's this.

And to respond to your OP: no, you actually need an invite. Especially because she's new. Why are you so anxious about going, anyway? Trying to be the boyfriend? Slow down.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
This is not to say you must f*ck her immediately after meeting her. All you need to do is not analyze or prioritize her until she f*cks you. Don't go out of your way, don't chat for hours on the phone, don't go shopping with her, etc. The more neutral/non-sexual time you spend with her.. the more likely you will be friend zoned or put in the "men to exploit" (beta fag) zone.
This is solid advice. Trying to analyze what a chick you just met says or does is a waste of time.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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