"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can I ask a girl with a BF out to a coffee?

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Canadien

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ok, so as I take dance lessons and approach girls everywhere the list of girls I talk to is growing each day, but many of them already have boyfriend, so should I just ignore the fact, and keep playing my game?

Somehow they are attracted, and talking to me despite having BF, today one girls even forced me to cheek kiss her, after building very strong rapport for 20 minute in a bus, I've only talked to her once before...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Girls with a boyfriend is dangerous territory. One that I want to break into. Right now I'm guessing that 90% of attractive women are in relationships. Even if they don't like the guy they are simply with him so they won't be single.

The #1 girl on my list right now has been with her boyfriend for 2 years and they constantly break up and get back together. Obviously something is wrong with their relationship and I think she keeps getting back with him because she gets lonely not being in a relationship. IMO I think she is waiting for a guy that is better than her current BF who can "take" her away from him.

As for how to get women who are in "relationships," I haven't figured it out yet.
 
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young_gun

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Yeah, it's possible to go out to coffee / lunch with them, because that's a pretty casual thing to do. It's not like you're taking her out to a fancy dinner and then a movie date. LOL. Her boyfriend would have none of that. But since it's a pretty casual thing, I'm sure it would be ok. Couldn't hurt to ask!

I went out to lunch with this girl all the time last school year and she had a BF. It wasn't a big deal. She was REALLY flirty with me too!
 
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dont see a problem.. just think of it as friends having lunch? I have coffee with one of my best girl mates every once in a while.. shes been commited to her current bf for about 1 yr+..
 
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Yes is the answer to your qestion.

Keep it casual and treat her no different from anyone else. The important thing to remember is to have FUN with her

Remember - practice practice practice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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yeah have fun wit her. About chicks with men, Maxtro is on it, "Girls are like monkeys, they won't let go of one branch-until they have a firm grasp on another." Keep in mind it might cause beef, tho, her man might be a jealous crazy type....
 
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