"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Can hyperthyroidism cause erectile dysfunction and problems achieving and maintaining erections?
- Thread starter Tehgoobz
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PeasantPlayer
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Well I don't necessarily think I have high blood pressure, yeah I've heard about the metabolism too so you do think it's pretty likely? How could I resolve this?
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I dunno man, I'm not a doctor (yet
) so I can only make big guesses from really wild leaps of logic that to most people who know a lot about this would probably call me crazy lol. Best thing is to talk to a doctor about it, they can treat hyperthyroidism."So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
IBreatheSpears
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Also, try a supplement called ashwagandha/Indian ginseng (link has many studies proving its effectiveness). I've been taking 6g/day for a couple of months and it's great, I feel 10x more manly than before. Sleep better, less social anxiety, higher libido, faster facial hair and body hair growth, and I haven't noticed any side-effects. Apparently it speeds up musce growth quite a bit too, basically like taking low doses of roids, but it's hard to tell becase I'm still in the noob gains phase. My quads are definitely looking bigger though, despite me losing a few kilos and having noticeably less fat on my face and belly.
Now I just have to figure out why I had low test in the first place. I don't mind taking this stuff forever, it's not too expensive, but obviously I'd rather fix the actual problem.
SmooveMooves
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Derek Flint
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Was diagnosed with Graves disease/Hyperthyroidism @ age 40 and still got the Morning Slumber Lumber and could nut 2x per day or more.
YMMV
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Krueg
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