"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Can hyperthyroidism cause erectile dysfunction and problems achieving and maintaining erections?
- Thread starter Tehgoobz
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PeasantPlayer
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Well I don't necessarily think I have high blood pressure, yeah I've heard about the metabolism too so you do think it's pretty likely? How could I resolve this?
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I dunno man, I'm not a doctor (yet
) so I can only make big guesses from really wild leaps of logic that to most people who know a lot about this would probably call me crazy lol. Best thing is to talk to a doctor about it, they can treat hyperthyroidism."You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
IBreatheSpears
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Also, try a supplement called ashwagandha/Indian ginseng (link has many studies proving its effectiveness). I've been taking 6g/day for a couple of months and it's great, I feel 10x more manly than before. Sleep better, less social anxiety, higher libido, faster facial hair and body hair growth, and I haven't noticed any side-effects. Apparently it speeds up musce growth quite a bit too, basically like taking low doses of roids, but it's hard to tell becase I'm still in the noob gains phase. My quads are definitely looking bigger though, despite me losing a few kilos and having noticeably less fat on my face and belly.
Now I just have to figure out why I had low test in the first place. I don't mind taking this stuff forever, it's not too expensive, but obviously I'd rather fix the actual problem.
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Derek Flint
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Was diagnosed with Graves disease/Hyperthyroidism @ age 40 and still got the Morning Slumber Lumber and could nut 2x per day or more.
YMMV
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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