"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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can girls have a wingman

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't see why not !! can come in handy if you want a threesome ...
 
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Yes, it is possible for a guy and girl to wing for each other. Your "friend" introduces you to guys. In return, you introduce him to girls.

This works when you like each other as friends, but are not really interested in hooking up with each other. Then, they're shouldn't be a jealousy issue.
 
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Mike32ct said:
Yes, it is possible for a guy and girl to wing for each other. Your "friend" introduces you to guys. In return, you introduce him to girls.

This works when you like each other as friends, but are not really interested in hooking up with each other. Then, they're shouldn't be a jealousy issue.
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well i have a friend like that but his friends are lame

as soon as im single again ill need to find myself a barney stinson
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A female cannot be refered to as a wing I think the word Pivot is the right term, a female especially an attractive female who accompanies you to a club or any sort of outing will automatically attract female attention to you because it's a known fact that having an attractive female with you will get other females to notice you in a positive manner because other females think " WELL IF SHE'S WITH HIM THEN THERE MUST BE SOMETHING AMAZING ABOUT HIM". So yes a female can act as your pivot, so go out there and play the game.
 
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when girls go out in a group of two or more, they dont refer to each other as wingmen. they just say they are going out.... but they either wing for each other or they block each other.
 
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CJ 101 said:
A female cannot be refered to as a wing I think the word Pivot is the right term, a female especially an attractive female who accompanies you to a club or any sort of outing will automatically attract female attention to you because it's a known fact that having an attractive female with you will get other females to notice you in a positive manner because other females think " WELL IF SHE'S WITH HIM THEN THERE MUST BE SOMETHING AMAZING ABOUT HIM". So yes a female can act as your pivot, so go out there and play the game.
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EXAAAACTLY. This is deep game, my dude. It also works online when you are seen with fly, attractive women. Good sh*t
 
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when girls go out in a group of two or more, they dont refer to each other as wingmen. they just say they are going out.... but they either wing for each other or they block each other.
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Like most guys, I used to hate the blocking. But now, I'm at a point where I actually FEEL SORRY for single women that are out with a group of their girlfriends. With all the blocking going on, she has little chance to meet a decent guy, unless she secures that rare unanimous vote of approval from all members of the board lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is no such thing as a girl wingman because frankly THEY DON'T NEED ONE!

You think a female needs a wingman when she can get on POF and have 30 msgs in just the first hour from drooling guys wanting to get with her? Do you think a female needs a wingman when your average looking female has dozens of orbiters on facebook waiting to pounce? When she only has to send a msg like "come get me" to any of those guys and she could have a man withing 10 minutes??

The whole purpose of a wing man is to help a guy score with a woman. But women don't need any help in today's game where the balance is tilted fully in their favor. Even the uggliest of women has a list of pursuers she can pick from. No woman needs to go to a club with a winggirl when the club is already 80% guys hoping to get lucky with any decent looking gal he could find.
 
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Yeah, it's called a pimp lol :cool:
 
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