Can BPD woman really change?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

hockeyfreak79

Master Don Juan

Sep 21, 2013

#101

I don't know for sure if my ex is BPD but damn after reading some articles (Mauser96 previous post) and the one below, it's possible. This post isn't all about bitterness and oh she destroyed me, NOPE.

If anything I'm glad I experienced it and it was short lived. Knowledge is power, if I see these glaring red flags in the future I will know exactly what I'm dealing with and what to do.

This woman seemed somewhat normal at first, good career, decent house, new car.

My jaw dropped quite a few times after reading this article, written by a psychotherapist.

http://www.bpdfamily.com/bpdresourc...he new emotional tampon on a leash, no doubt.

Last edited: Sep 22, 2013

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.